Monday Mantra – Be Comfortable With Yourself

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Happy Monday loves!! Over the last couple of years, since I started practicing mindfulness and yoga, I have really started to become more comfortable in my own skin. If you’ve been reading this blog for awhile, than you know that I’ve been through a lot these past few years. It’s shown me that I never gave myself enough credit. I spent way too much time worrying about what other people might say or think about me. Now? I don’t give a f#@k. Well, maybe less of a f#@k would be more accurate!

Now, I’m just me, and I make decisions based more on what I want. I’ve always been a nice person and a people pleaser and I still am. But I won’t take crap from anyone anymore and I will assert myself. I’m also a lot more comfortable with who I am and with what I am doing with my life. That’s not to say that I never question myself because I do. All the time. Who doesn’t? Mindfulness teaches you to look at yourself without judgement. To show loving kindness towards yourself and others. This practice has taught me to recognize when I am being too hard on myself and to ease up. I don’t expect others to be perfect so why would I expect it from myself??

One of the biggest things that I have noticed is that I’m more adventurous with my fashion choices. I am all about mixed prints these days and bright colours when before I would never dress like this because it might draw too much attention my way. While I’m by no means a huge attention seeker, I’ve become a lot more comfortable with getting attention for what I am wearing. I’ve also noticed how much mental space is freed up when you are no longer so concerned with what others might think or say about you. It’s wonderful!! There is such a freedom in being comfortable with who you are.

Thanks for reading,

Charlene xoxo

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    • Tami, I’m so glad to hear this!! It can be so challenging to break out of your shell but once you do it almost seems like you become a whole new person

  • I’m still not in the phase where I don’t quite care what others think, but I’m slowly getting there. It’s going to take some more time because I have a lot of feelings & emotions! xx adaatude.com

    • So true! I find that I don’t care as much as I used to but there are still times where I care way too much! I’m a pretty sensitive person so I tend to care more about other peoples feelings and thoughts than I do about my own.

  • I love this post, such a great reminder but also I can really see how much I’ve grown out of this in the past couple of years!

    • I think that as we get older and more confident in ourselves we do tend to stop caring as much about what other people think of us

  • Yes, so true. I have always been the girl who never cares what anyone thinks. However, I am very hard on myself which can make it seem like I can what others think. But, really it’s just the pressure of wanting to be better or fighting with myself inside. Great post!

    Xo,

    Brittany

    • Thanks Brittany, I can appreciate your point about being hard on yourself. I know that I am constantly putting pressure on myself to do better but I am starting to realize that I need to stop being so hard on myself.

  • That quote was great…Monday night I got into an argument with some sorority sisters (we are alum now) for bullying a girl in a pledge class below us. I called them out and they were so mad at me..deleted me from social media & etc (don’t give a damn) but reading that makes me feel like I am comfortable with myself and not afraid to stick up for other people or myself!

  • Great reminder! I still need to work on this! Keep it up girl! xo
    McKenna
    stylewaltz.com

  • So true!! Be comfortable in your own skin is so important (especially for a fashion blogger). Not everyone is going to like everything you share, but as long as YOU like it, that’s all that matters.

    Cameron Proffitt

  • This is SUCH a great quote! I love it for so many reasons and is something I live by. You have to do things for you and not for others – thanks for sharing!

    Sportsanista